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Older Child Adoption Blog

10/13/07

Clothes For A Large Family

Posted by : Cindy Bodie in Older Child Adoption Blog at 05:34 pm , 417 words, 214 views  
Categories: Adoptive Families
Even if I only had two kids or just a dozen children, I’d shop entirely at yard sales. I get down on myself for not sorting my trash enough, for not having more bins for milk cartons, cereal boxes, glass jars, and tin cans to recycle, when in reality I pre-cycle by not buying drink bottles and excess stuff, but I could do way better than I’m doing right now. That’s one of my next goals as I reclaim my life once again now that my children are older and allegedly less demanding.

Now yard sales…let me tell you about my adventures each Saturday. I feel as if I’m flying under the radar of our capitalistic economy, purchasing at pennies on the dollar what others have discarded, thereby reducing my own personal envrionmental impact on stuff that then didn’t demand all the pollution involved in making something new just for me, taking the sting out of my own carbon footprint.

Think about our clothes alone, the entire fashion industry is an environmental nightmare with synthetics, dyes and chemicals. Just consider the amount of water that runs through each factory to make each frilly dumb outfit that won’t even be in style soon.

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I refuse to participate in that treadmill.

I bought 30 collared shirts today, all name brands like Polo and Izod, gently used (about as much as if I’d bought it new and washed it once), for my dozen or so sons that are growing so quickly. I did this all for less than a $20 bill as I also bought a plant in a beautiful ceramic pot, two footballs and a scooter.

My children dress beautifully and proudly knowing how little we have invested in their attire overall.

I went back to one yard sale around noon, knowing they didn’t want to drag all that stuff back inside and they gave us forty something books, more ceramic pots, and toys for Tabby, my youngest daughter.

Nothing in my kitchen came new from a store, very little in my entire house was purchased conventionally and I like it that way. I like being removed one degree from our consumer society, I like teaching my children how to live inexpensively and more in tune with the environment.

They enjoy this too, a dozen of them accompanied me today, other times it’s my grown kids wanting to go, but every single time we get great deals, and come home happy.

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Comment from: Kelly [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com
I did a similar thing the other day. I did the rounds on the thrift stores and bought Hannah almost an entire winter wardrobe for around $20. The only things I couldn't find were a winter coat and snow pants. SIGH! Guess I'll have to do "real" shopping for those.
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Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
my 15yo found a snazzy desk chair. it had interesting adjustements. we flipped it over and googled the name stamped on the sticker. bodybuilt. turns out our boy had scored an $800, custom built office chair, for seven bucks. garage sales rock!
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Comment from: Cindy Bodie [Member] Email · http://older-child.adoptionblogs.com
Sunbonnet Sue, My kids often come home and googled their finds. Sabrina had a Gloria Vanderbilt jean jacket yesterday for 50 cents worth about 50 dollars. It's shocking to me but happily so.
Kelly, this being the Deep South, I don't recall ever seeing snow pants at a yard sale...I've probably never ever seen a pair before in my life.
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Comment from: sara71 [Member] Email
I have had the hardest battle with my older, adopted child, because of clothing. For someone who has come from absolutely nothing, she absolutely demands everything. She expects Hollister, American Eagle, and refuses to wear clothing more reasonably priced. So, I buy what I can afford, but endure the tantrums about not having any clothing to wear. I can't even imagine trying to introduce thrift-shopping or yard sales; the battle is way too much. How do you handle this?
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