Foster Care Adoption is one of the easiest ways to adopt a child in America. After all your paperwork and background checks are completed, and your homestudy checks out, the rest is fairly easy.
Your adoption center will place children with you when they have any child come through that fits your desired age range and blended statistics.
You will get an intake package on each child. It is a good idea to keep a file for each child so all the paper work and school records as well as medical history is at hand, if ever needed.
Some foster homes have 20 or 30 children come and go from their home. On different occasions you will have a child in your home who will come up for Termination of Paternal Rights for any number of reasons the court may rule upon.
As a foster parent you are allowed the first opportunity to adopt that child if you desire to while they are in your home. If you do not wish to adopt the child, the agency will often place the child in a different pre-adopt home.
If you in fact do want to adopt the child. The case worker will assign you an adoption worker. You will go through a few interviews and so will the child if the child is an older child, to make sure that both of you want the same thing.
Your adoption worker does almost all of the paperwork for you. There is a small fee for each child being adopted. In most cases it is less than 500 dollars per child. It usually takes six months to one year for the adoptions to be finalized.
One trip before the judge and later you receive the official paperwork and a new birth certificate with yourselves listed as the parents. You now are a legal family.
Adoption day is a celebration day for most adoptive families. They set it aside each year and do something a little special to commemorate when they became a family. For other families they just blend the day in like another day and only celebrate the usual birthdays and such.
Either way it is a wonderful day to remember. It is the day that created a new family. A chance to bond and love one another with unconditional love. A day of New Beginnings.
Most parents worry that they may have to settle for an older child and will never get the opportunity to parent a new born. This however is not always the case.
Once you have children in your home if the birth parent ever becomes pregnant and a new child enters custody, the agency often calls the adoptive parents of siblings and gives them first chance to foster / adopt this new child.
My family is living proof of this. After three years of family life with the older children we adopted, this happened to us. We were blessed with an 8 day old baby girl. She is fully adopted now and is turning 8 in May.
We are a total family, growing each day. We have two grandsons and one granddaughter now, with one on the way. So holidays at our house are a serious occasion, with a lot of good food, presents and laughter.
So if you are considering building a new family through adoption, I would suggest that you look into foster care. Give a little love and receive just as much back.