From toddlers to teens. Observation is still the best way to understand their motives. As a parent we often watch our children play around the house. We catch each new movement they make and each new word they say. We observe their pattern of learning.

As the kids grow older we still observe them when they are doing things. we find that their words do not always back up their motions. So we really get to know our kids.

Usually a good mom or dad will always catch on to what is happening around them and their child even before "all the facts are out in the open." We just have this feeling about our kids.

Many people think you have to be the biological parent to have this bond with a child. That is not always true. I have this with my adopted children.
From the moment I adopted them I have been able to feel them and know when they need me. I sometimes kid and tell them I know them better than they know themselves.

From some of their actions they prove me to be right almost everyday. (giggles) Just by listening to what your kids say you can tell if they are being straight with you or twisting the truth. If what they say does not feel right. Then watch their actions. If they are saying one thing and doing another. You bet your butt they are up to something.

For some reason kids just keep trying to pull the wool over our eyes and ears....from the tender age of toddler to the terrified teens. They just do not want mom or dad to know the bad stuff and to think negative of them.

Whatever the age one of the best ways to know your child is to stop, look and listen to them. You are the one who knows your child best. You are also the insturment that will teach them along lifes way to be honest and find good character.

Just stop, look and listen. Their actions and words will teach you everything you need to know about them and more.