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02/24/06

Hang Up That Phone

Posted by : Sharlene in Older Child Adoption Blog at 07:30 pm , 298 words, 67 views  
Categories: Todays Teen Soap Opera
I don't know about you but in my home lately, every time I see my daughter or one of her friends, my telephone is stuck to their ear.

We have tried to limit time per phone call. We have tried to set limits on how many calls they can each make a day. But somehow, someway, they still manage to slip by us.

So what about cell phones? My kids have been begging for one. Of course for safety purposes my husband and I both have one now. I just can't see why my daughter needs one this early in life.

Other parents give in to their kids and say oh well this way I can get in contact with them anytime I need. To which I say, "Betcha Ya Can't." If they are smart enough to want one, they are smart enough to turn them off when they don't want to be bothered. That would only make me worry more.

For us, both our house phones go to bed with us when we do. That way the kids cannot use the phone after hours. For now I say NO CELL PHONES for my kids. Not at least until they drive. Then maybe they will borrow mine for a while until I know they are responsible enough to use them wisely and learn to help pay the bill.

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So who out there has rendered cell phones to their kids? Anyone else tired of seeing their teen with a phone stuck out their ear? I would rather they read a book. At least they wouldn't talk all day with nothing to say.

I'm inclined to tell my kids to hang up that phone and find something more creative to do. So what do you think about that?

Hugs,
Shar

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Comment from: Dr. G [Member] Email · http://adoptive-parenting.adoptionblogs.com/
My son (age 11) already has a cell phone. A nice one at that! He just got the RAZR for Christmas. Before that (he's had one since the age of nine) he had the no-frills model that comes when you sign up for the service. Maybe it's because he's a boy, but, he never (and I mean NEVER) uses it except to call me or his dad when he's away from home. Or to call one of us when there's something urgent going on at school like a forgotten permission slip for a field trip or to remind me that it is an early dismissal day. Stuff like that.

I'm not sure how well that will all work when he hits the 'tween and teen years though. But, I'm a pretty no-nonsense mother. So, if it becomes a problem. I'll just take it away from him without giving it a second thought.

My oldest daughter (now age 9) has asked for a cell phone, but, she is so forgetful that she would lose her head if it was not attached to her body. I've told her no way and I don't want to hear any @)(#$* about how unfair it is! It is her reality, deal with it.

The "baby" (now age 8) hasn't even tried to go there yet.
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Comment from: Kelsey [Member] Email · http://siblings.adoptionblogs.com/
I got a cell phone when I was 14, and a year and half later (yesterday to be exact) it got canceled my by dearest mother because I wore what she calls "swim trunks" to school even though I was told not to. whoops! The thing is, in my eyes it's more of a loss for her to take my cell away permanently, because there are so many things that I'm not home for that she wants to be able to cantact me 24/7 (and my cell is ALWAYS on, and so are most teens' that I know- God forbid we should miss the latest gossip). But it is a good threat to use on your kids if they mess up- saying you're going to take their cell away. The only problem with getting your kids one right when they start driving, is that I know soo many people that have cell phones and cars at the same time and, because both things are new to them, they want to use both at the same time, which is the worst thing you could probably do when you've just started driving. Me, since I've had my cell for so long, I have no desire to use it while driving , no matter who is calling me. Just the point of view from the other end of the spectrum, haha.

-Aleida
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