When children are little we often do not think of how they will react to things like moving or getting new baby sitters. We know they are resilient and usually adapt to just about anything in time. However some changes do up set them and they do tend to show it in their actions.

One family of four that lives near us, has moved several times since their son was born. Their toddler didn't seem to mind much that they were moving and packing all of his toys and clothes. But their 3 year old was very up set.

As his mommy placed items into a box he would run and try and put the items back where they belonged.
He wanted to stay in his room and keep his toys and clothes there with him.

Mom and Dad sat him down and tried to explain to him that he was going to be moving to a new house with a new bedroom. That they would not be living in an apartment any longer. Words really meant nothing to him.

It actually took taking him to the new house and showing him his new room and his new back yard before he agreed to put his things in the boxes.

Then after he was shown where he was moving too he even helped his mommy pack his toys and things up from his room.

With little people from the age of 3 and up. They often do much better if you show them new places or things that will help them understand more about the change that they will be making.

It is just like any strange new thing in their life.
They need to check it out and see first hand that there is no danger there before they feel ok with it.

Introducing new people into their life is also something that needs to be done slowly and to their own ability to comprehend. Like a new cook, housekeeper or baby sitter should be asked to stop in and allow the children to become comfortable with them before they start a normal work schedule.

Taking an extra bit of time and energy to secure your little one's feelings will actually help your child feel more secure in the long run.

Fear can be a big stumbling block for families. If your child is afraid of something it can through off his or her complete routine. Facing the fear with a parent who will take time to show the child there is nothing for him or her to be afraid of is one of the first positive steps to over coming the fear for the child.

Any one out there with some positive tips on how they helped their child adjust to a move or to taking baths or sleeping alone.....all comments are welcomed.